Why We Click With Some People Instantly

First Impressions Happen In Seconds

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Mirror Neurons & Emotional Contagion

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Energy & Body Language Matter

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Past Experiences Shape Our Vibes

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Chemistry Is Real—Even Platonically

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The Subconscious Power Of Scents & Voices

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