Zainab Khanam

How To Stop Chasing People Who Don’t Value You

Recognize The Signs

If they’re always too busy, inconsistent, or uninterested, stop making excuses for them.

Ask Yourself: What Are You Chasing?

Is it love, validation, or closure? Understanding your reasons helps you break free.

Shift The Focus Back To You

Invest time in your passions, growth, and self-care—not in people who don’t reciprocate.

Stop Over-Giving

If you’re the one always texting first, making plans, or adjusting, take a step back and see if they match your energy.

Accept That You Deserve Better

You shouldn’t have to convince anyone to appreciate you. The right people will choose you willingly.

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Set Boundaries & Stick To Them

Don’t settle for bare minimum effort. If someone doesn’t value you, walk away with dignity.

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Surround Yourself With People Who Care

True connections feel mutual, effortless, and uplifting. Spend time with those who genuinely appreciate you.

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Let Go Without Guilt

Detaching doesn’t mean you’re bitter—it means you respect yourself enough to stop settling.

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