Akbar's wife says hubby not rapist, alleged victim destroyed marital life..Akbar accepts consensual relationship

New Delhi, Nov 2: Former Union Minister MJ Akbar's wife has come out in his defence after another journalist alleged sexual harassment by Akbar. This came after an allegation of rape  by a US-based journalist narrating her ordeal of working under him when he was the editor of The Asian Age

 Pallavi Gogoi, Chief Business Editor at National Public Radio, in an article written under her byline for The Washington Post published on Friday (Thursday, India time), narrated her detailed account and described the incident of rape and various others incidents of sexual assault on her 23 years ago as "the most painful memories of my life". Akbar too has denied terming it a  "lie". He claimed that they had entered into a "consensual relationship". Akbar in a statement to ANI said Gogoi's November 2 article in the Washington Post had detailed "false allegations of rape and violence against me"."I have had occasion to read this article and it has become necessary, at this point in time, to bring certain facts to light. Somewhere around 1994, Pallavi Gogoi and I entered into consensual relationship that spanned several months."This relationship gave rise to talk and would later cause strife in my home life as well. This consensual relationship ended, perhaps not on best note," he said."People who worked with me and knew both of us have indicated that they would be happy to bear testimony to what is stated above and at no stage did the behaviour of Pallavi Gogoi give any one of them impression that she was working under duress," he said.Akbar also said on October 29 the Washington Post forwarded to his lawyers a "series of cryptic and non-specific questions, regarding incidents alleged to have taken place approximately 23 years ago"."These allegations were false and were consequently denied," he added.In a separate statement his wife Mallika Akbar also dismissed Gogoi's accusations, made in a Washington Post article Friday, as a "lie". In her statement, Mallika said "more than twenty years ago, Pallavi Gogoi caused unhappiness and discord in our home. I learned of her and my husband's involvement through her late night phone calls and her public display of affection in my presence." "I don't know Pallavi’s reasons for telling this lie but a lie it is," she added.  Story so farAfter several women accused former Union Minister M.J. Akbar of sexual harassment in the wake of the #MeToo campaign, an allegation of rape has now surfaced with a US-based journalist narrating her ordeal of working under him when he was the editor of The Asian Age.Pallavi Gogoi, Chief Business Editor at National Public Radio, in an article written under her byline for The Washington Post published on Friday (Thursday, India time), narrated her detailed account and described the incident of rape and various others incidents of sexual assault on her 23 years ago as "the most painful memories of my life".Akbar's lawyer, Sandeep Kapur, told the Washington Post that his client "states these (incidents and allegation) are false and expressly denied." When contacted by IANS, Kapur said the same thing adding that "any further course of action would be decided by the evening."After two incidents in Delhi and Bombay where Akbar had sexually molested and assaulted her, she said, one news story took her to a remote village a few hundred miles from Delhi."The assignment was to end in Jaipur. When I checked back, Akbar said I could come discuss the story in his hotel in Jaipur, far from Delhi.""In his hotel room, even though I fought him, he was physically more powerful. He ripped off my clothes and raped me. Instead of reporting him to the police, I was filled with shame," said Gogoi."I didn't tell anyone about this then. Would anyone have believed me? I blamed myself. Why did I go to the hotel room?" she added.She said after the Jaipur incident, "his grip over me got tighter"."I stopped fighting his advances because I felt so helpless. He continued to coerce me. For a few months, he continued to defile me sexually, verbally, emotionally," she added.After several women journalists charged Akbar with sexual harassment and assault in the past one month, he resigned as Minister of State for External Affairs on October 17. He has filed a defamation case against one of the first accusers.In her 1,800 word article, Gogoi attacked the ruling BJP for letting Akbar continue as its member."He's still today a member of the Indian Parliament and a member of the ruling party, which prides itself on advancing rights for young girls," she wrote.Gogoi added that he would burst into loud rages in the newsroom if he saw her talking to male colleagues of her age. "It was frightening."Later, when Gogoi was posted in London, she felt that the abuse would stop because she would be far away from Delhi office "except the truth was that he was sending me away so I could have no defenses and he could prey on me whenever he visited the city where I would be posted."She also alleged that Akbar was hit her when he saw her speaking to a male colleague in London office and "went on a rampage, throwing things from the desk at me -- a pair of scissors, a paperweight, whatever he could get his hands on", she said."I was in shreds -- emotionally, physically, mentally..." she wroteShe said it was difficult to explain why she didn't fight him back then."I cannot explain today how and why he had such power over me, why I succumbed. Was it because he was so much more powerful than I was?..."She said over the years, she did not bring up Akbar in conversations as "I've always felt that Akbar is above the law and justice doesn't apply to him. I felt he would never pay the price for what he had done to me.""But I am writing this because I know what it is like to be victimized by powerful men like Akbar. I am writing this to support the many women who have come out to tell their truth."News24 Bureau/ Agencies