New Delhi: We often want to try and discuss certain sensitive topics with our partner, but fail to do so just because we can’t bring the courage up or we sometimes don’t know how the other person will react. Do you face this dilemma too in your relationship? Then here is a solution to your problem.
The below list gives you 8 ways to bring up sensitive topics with your partner.
Start Simple
Keep the conversation simple at the beginning, without immediately diving into the issue you want to discuss. This can make things more manageable.
Be Kind
Sensitive topics have a habit of bringing out the argumentative sides in people. Be kind and make sure you are not using harsh language.
Time is the Key
Give your better half the time to absorb things you are trying to say before jumping into the other topics. They need time to process the situation and express.
Understand their View point
There is always two sides of a coin. Let him say his side of story. Make sure you give your partner time to talk about what the issue means to them.
Pace Yourself
Conversation can go wrong if you keep poking through the issue. Take your time and make sure you don’t rush to the end.
Silence is sometimes Needed
When there is silence, it means that people have time to think about things, and it’s a good thing to be silent at times. Give them time to process without interrupting too often.
Respect the Boundaries
There are some things that people just don’t feel comfortable talking about. Introduce the subject but make sure you respect the boundaries of your partner.
End on a Positive Note
A lot of sensitive topics are there which aren’t always have a happy memory. However, ending on a positive note can make things go smoothly next time.
